Relationship Compatibility
Characteristics of Highly Functioning People

Highly functioning individuals enjoy the best relationship compatibility.

Look at the portrait below of healthy people in relationship; all of those qualities are achievable if you just do the work.

A healthy relationship is the result of both partners having healed deeply rooted emotional issues.

According to the universal Law of Attraction, like energy attracts like energy to itself.

By doing your emotional work you transformed your low frequency energetic vibrations into highly positive vibrations, which raises the probability of attracting someone with whom you will enjoy superb relationship compatibility.

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Characteristics of Highly Functioning People

Included are excerpts from reliable sources such as, Dr. Wayne Dyer, the author of the book, Your Erroneous Zones, and Neale Donald Walsch the author of a series of books, Conversations With God.

Dr. Dyer's 1976 book instigated my pursuit to eradicate my internal turmoil. To add value to this article I include a few of characteristics of his highly functional person from his last chapter, Portrait of a Person Who Has Eliminated All Erroneous Zones.

• Humility. They are fully aware of and have developed and fine tuned their inherent talents and strengths into fulfilling and often financially rewarding passions and/or careers.

  It is without a false sense of self-importance that they live their passions. They are equally aware of their weaknesses, and comfortable about seeking advice on how to manage them.

  About humility, Neale Donald Walsch says, Humility has nothing to do with self-sacrifice. It has to do with self-awareness. It has to do with an awareness of Who We Really Are... and, thus, of who everyone else is.

• Highly functional people love themselves. They have no need to puff themselves up by diminishing others.

  It is only by loving yourself that you can truly love others and thus create healthy relationship compatibility with your partner.

• They enjoy competition for the purpose of self-improvement. They may even enjoy losing more than winning because they delight in continuous learning and self-discovery. They generously acknowledge and congratulate their winning opponent.

• They are honest and forthright having no desire, or need, to deceive others. This quality makes them desirable life partners because they know true intimacy.

  Wayne Dyer, says, Another hallmark of these fully functioning individuals is honesty. They are not evasive with their responses, nor do they pretend or lie about anything. They see lying as a distortion of their own reality, and they will not participate in self-delusional behavior.

• They realize that they create their life, as it is, and they take full responsibility for their own actions.

• They know that true happiness comes from within not from other people or things. Therefore, they do not depend on anyone to make them happy.

• They are masterful at turning uncomfortable situations into fun events, or as a last resort, and without judgment, they quickly move on to something more pleasing.

• They are independent; often misunderstood and criticized by less secure individuals for not needing them.

• Healthy individuals see an abundant world full of delicious choices. They never get bored.

• They view failure as an opportunity to move closer to their goal.

• They are self aware and not easily deceived by the ego's false beliefs and judgments.

• Their behavior may often be perceived as unsympathetic and cruel because they have no desire to join a pity party.

  Instead they invite others to rise above their pain and suffering by offering them a helping hand.

  They see everyone as whole and resourceful and allow them to make their own choices, without judgment.

• Their idea of time-management is closely tied to their intuition. What feels right in the present moment is what they will do and where they will go.

  If canceling an appointment is necessary for them to follow their guidance, so be it.

• Friends may find them reliably unreliable; others who are bound by rules of orderliness and time commitment may be convinced that they are thoughtless and inconsiderate.

  They function without guilt and fear of consequences. Other people's opinion of them is of no concern to them. They do not fall into traps of trying to achieve relationship compatibility with people who are manipulative and self-serving.

• They love life and enjoy a childlike curiosity about most everything. They delight in learning about what is presented in the moment.

• They may appear to be easily distracted but they simply move easily and joyfully with the flow of life.

• These individuals create and enjoy healthy family relationships because they are caring, loving and fun to be with.

• They love to serve others.

• Because they are independent, they discourage co-dependent tendencies in their partners and their children.

• They consider themselves to be members of humanity in general, rather than of family, city, province, state or country.

There you have it - the characteristics of highly functional individuals.

All of the above qualities are achievable...

To attain excellent relationship compatibility a good first step is to heal your emotional issues by eradicating self-limiting and self-destructive thought patterns of the ego.

Please note that I am not saying that all highly functioning people will be compatible with each other.

Of course, relationship compatibility also depends on other factors, such as common interests.

For example, if one partner delights in sailing on the high seas and the other prefers the comfort of solid dry land, a pair of highly functioning adults would agree to engage in their passions separately.

But, if none of their passions were of mutual interest, then what would be the point of coming together as life partners?

Should you decide to take advantage of the FREE self-mastery course provided here on this website, I recommend that you start on Page 1. Introduction to the Relationship Rescue Course.

Students of the course: please proceed from here to Next>>>Article #2. How To Stop Negative Thinking

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